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Thursday, December 4, 2008
Ever get the feeling you're being used?
What do you do about something like that? Do you confront the issue, or just hang on for the ride and see where it goes? I'm normally a "go with the flow" type of person, but in this case the possibility of being used is toying with my emotions so I'm not sure if that is the correct path to take. She says she wants to be with me when we're old, but I get the feeling lately that its more of just a convenience 'til I can be dropped and moved on from with ease. I just don't understand her actions of late...
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Girls can do that...a lot. Waiting for something or someone better to come by but leaning on your security to bide your time. All you can do is read the signs, and sit and wait. sorry m'love =/
Relationships and wanting goes in cycles. One week you're really into the person, the next week not so much, and the week after that you can't imagine being with anyone else, etc etc. Obviously you're into her at a period where she's stretched back away for a while. The best thing to do is enjoy the good parts of that relationship, but also fill your life with other relationships (friendships, family or whatever) so when someone cycles away, there's more people/things/activities in your life that can make you happy.
So I vote for "hang on for the ride" in the sense of being supportive of someone you love and letting them move away, but that doesn't mean putting up with bullshit that makes you feel bad about yourself.
But if you're in a space where you can focus on something else for awhile or go out with some other people then you might not feel so desperate and like you're just waiting to see what happens in your life rather than actually doing something.
Girls will also push your boundaries and give you shit and say mean things. Just let them know that it's unacceptable behavior (because it really is) and that you're not cool with that. It's like when they ask the question "What would you do if I cheated on you?" - the answer is always "I wouldn't love you any more" even if you secretly would.
This is probably all irrelevant to your situation, but oh well. It's just my relationship philosophy.
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